About 3/4 head large cabbage.
 
Mix together with a wisk
 
About 1 cup of mayo or a little more
Abort 1/2 cup of milk or a little more
About 2 capfuls of vinegar
About 2 heaping tablespoons of sugar or to taste.
Salt to taste
 
I put the cut up cabbage in the food processor & pulse it till I get the right consistency..
 
Then pour mixture over it a little at a time till it is moist enough.